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RE: old faces


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As said, it's not an excuse - things change and people have to change in line

What's the difference between that and fascism confuse

Will be leaving soon for somewhere less woke.


 Please dont Strongbow, i think everyone just realised it was a slightly clumsy use of language, absolutely nothing more. You are a really important member of this board, heck we would miss lots of stuff - the strongest nation updates, the quarterly points on off tables! so please dont go. 



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GAMEOVER wrote:
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Back to the list, and noticeable that there were only three (!) British women in the Top 300, which must be an all time low. I know there have been periods without a Top 100 player, but to me this is particularly bad. Or conversely, a sign of how far we've come.


 Jeepers !!   -  how easily one can forget such comparatively recent past.

I could have told you that we briefly had 4 women in the top 100 in 2012 ( as Heather and Laura crossed over with Bally and Anne K ) after a long period in the relative doldrums.

But if you had asked me to guess how many top 300 players we had at the start of 2016, no way would I have been going so low. Yet I don't recall huge despair?  Was it more just a glum acceptance?


 The latter - we just accepted tennis wasnt a sport we excelled at. thankfully its different now, although it could still be better! 


 Things were not that bad because  by a month later Jo had reached the Australian Open semi finals.


 I think if there's success at the highest level, people don't look elsewhere. I remember many French fans and media saying that they would rather have one Andy Murray than four Top 10 players in Tsonga, Gasquet, Monfils and Simon. But the latter is far more indicative of a good tennis system/culture.

I think all a federation can do is try to produce players. Who comes through to the very top is down to additional factors.



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Strongbow wrote:

As said, it's not an excuse - things change and people have to change in line

What's the difference between that and fascism confuse

Will be leaving soon for somewhere less woke.


But look at the numbers  biggrin

Only one person really commented negatively and one person made a gentle reminder comment

And there were 'the other side' comments 

So you can't really label the whole forum based on that smile

As KC and the Sunshine band would say: 'Please Don't Go' biggrin

 



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Coup Droit wrote:
Strongbow wrote:

As said, it's not an excuse - things change and people have to change in line

What's the difference between that and fascism confuse

Will be leaving soon for somewhere less woke.


But look at the numbers  biggrin

Only one person really commented negatively and one person made a gentle reminder comment

And there were 'the other side' comments 

So you can't really label the whole forum based on that smile

As KC and the Sunshine band would say: 'Please Don't Go' biggrin 


Indeed CD. But very very sadly Strongbow has deleted his membership

As Jon indicates he has been a stalwart of the board with his different regularly updated lists, including to my mind most notably the Stongest Nation one but many others too which have sparked interest with what is often revealed. Ongoing lists can be so good to look back to at times.

The original gentle comment was to my mind entirely reasonable. There are very legitimate reasons why that term, once widely accepted, is not considered at all appropriate now, and I do not consider it part of the wider woke or PC argument re things that arguably go too far. We do live in often worrying times but here we have had an unfortunate take on what I took to be reasonable comment / advice to someone writing in the forum, and no doubt writing elsewhere, momentarily using an inappropriate word, so meant to be helpful as best avoided here and elsewhere. To link what we have had here to fascism is just so wrong.

All very unfortunate, and it would be great if there is any way to get Strongbow back. But we have the ( I assume still ongoing ) new member registration issue.



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It is unfortunate

However, people shouldn't be 'scared off' from making 'gentle reminders' just because someone might take it badly

If he dips into the forum, as an observer, I'll put it out there that, Strongbow, we DO hope that you reconsider

In the bigger picture, however, the mods MUST resolve the new member registration issue - I assumed it was resolved

Steven, everyone - the forum gets stale if there are no new voices - the numbers diminish (they can only go one way) and it will die

It should be TOP priority

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Coup Droit wrote:

It is unfortunate

However, people shouldn't be 'scared off' from making 'gentle reminders' just because someone might take it badly

If he dips into the forum, as an observer, I'll put it out there that, Strongbow, we DO hope that you reconsider

In the bigger picture, however, the mods MUST resolve the new member registration issue - I assumed it was resolved

Steven, everyone - the forum gets stale if there are no new voices - the numbers diminish (they can only go one way) and it will die

It should be TOP priority


 Very sad to see it end this way and will miss Strongbow. I think it was a misplaced slip that was right to call out but really sad it ended this way. 

will miss Strongest Nation in particular, and do hope there is a way back. 

re the new members not joining - I see it most in voting numbers in my polls where it definitely, IMO, has had an impact. I mentioned it to Sheddie I think in a PM, not sure if he has had a chance to look at it, but agree totally it is top priority. 



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By the way. We know Strongbows name from his account - it is in his profile. Not sure if that helps get a message to him in anyway via email or linked in or social media?

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I was already meaning to check out the latest new member position. I will do so pronto, CD, and if it is still apparently an issue ( and yes a big issue ), I will get on to Sheddie and Steven.

Edit: was that a recent mention to Sheddie, Jon?



-- Edited by indiana on Monday 12th of May 2025 08:35:51 AM

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indiana wrote:

I was already meaning to check out the latest new member position. I will do so pronto, CD, and if it is still apparently an issue ( and yes a big issue ), I will get on to Sheddie and Steven.

Edit: was that a recent mention to Sheddie, Jon?



-- Edited by indiana on Monday 12th of May 2025 08:35:51 AM


 Maybe a month or 6 weeks back, i cant  recall what he said as i deleted the PM thread! 

it was just after the end of Feb PoM vote in fact when i was bemoaning the lack of votes compared to past months, and placed it partly down to this issue. So early March, 2 months back. 



-- Edited by JonH comes home on Monday 12th of May 2025 08:42:13 AM

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Last new member was November 24. 6 months ago.

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Cheers, Jon, then yes I'll get on to it again.

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indiana wrote:

Cheers, Jon, then yes I'll get on to it again.


 Good stuff 



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JonH comes home wrote:
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Cheers, Jon, then yes I'll get on to it again.


 Good stuff 


Re the "20 years" ( the forum has been going for most 20 years° ) thread Sheddie has started, he is on the case.

And folk, do go and read his fascinating and nostalgic post there.

 



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It might be nice if someone reached out to Strongbow directly?

If so, DM me and I can provide his email

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Coup Droit wrote:

I realise that the term is considered offensive now and I know full well that it's no excuse but it is worth remembering that the term used above in the post was the 'polite' term for a long, long time - it was the correct term, the only acceptable term, anything ELSE was offensive.

In effect, 'coloured' was the polite, correct term and 'black' was offensive and rude

For people of a certain age, it's very hard to get on board that things have now come full circle

As said, it's not an excuse - things change and people have to change in line

But it doesn't mean that someone is racist or rude or whatever - it often means they are simply old and often default to what they were taught was the polite thing when they were young

(NB this is very different from derogatory terms for people of certain nationalities - there are words for Chinese or Italian or Spanish people, for instance, and indeed African or West Indian people, which were never, ever the polite term)



-- Edited by Coup Droit on Saturday 10th of May 2025 08:54:34 AM


 An excellent explanation CD.   I was born in the 1950s. It has been very difficult to keep up with what is polite and what is offensive over the years. 

I will miss Strongbows input hugely. 



-- Edited by KK on Monday 12th of May 2025 12:40:54 PM

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