Did you not read you imbecile. She did. Cakj is me. Youre unbelievable
Cakj, I am very sorry if your wife died. That must have been terrible for you.
But you must realise that some people have doubts over what you say when you admit to inventing an alter-ego of a different sex to post on here. You kind of lose the moral highground.
Now, get sensible, stop insulting folk, just post as yourself, and things should then settle down.
I particularly look forward to your promised analysis of what you think the problems really are and your positive suggestions to improve things, i.e. somewhat deeper than they keep losing matches they should win, so give up on them.